Most of you readers are most likely able to relate to what I’m about to lay out on you folks.
Recently, it seems like whenever you have some sort of transition in life or change, there’s always a select few who don’t transition along with you and then judge you on your recent differences.
Now, I’m not saying that these people are stupid, but I am saying that they’re ignorant.
Maybe before judging someones changes, you could possibly ask the person what’s been happening in life. Maybe the change in behavior isn’t because of bad influence but because the hurt in life made the person grow, maybe that’s a possibility of why it seems that they’ve changed. Maybe, just MAYBE you could possibly evaluate if the change is good or bad by taking the time to care to look into it. The main reason you might not get why I am the way I am, why I react in certain ways, or why my behavior different; is because you don’t know me anymore.
To the people with this struggle of being judged by the people you love and care about; I know that it hurts, no matter how much you try to fix things, how the person is judging you is a reflection of themselves.
To the people who tend to judge too quickly, you could express how much you care by taking the time to understand instead of assuming.
By the end of the day, as long as you’re being self-aware and happy with yourself, that’s all that matters. What you can’t change, accept.
Life has the ability to make you feel like your whole world is falling apart. Most things are meant to, but only to leave you room to rebuild.